What Are Her Eyes Saying
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Whilst flirting with women most men fail to take advantage of the physical connection that can be established. By correctly integrating certain physical aspects into the way you connect with women you can ensure that your connection with the woman you desire will be anchored in sexual tension, not friendship.
Establishing an emotional connection with women becomes easier when you integrate psychical flirtation such as eye contact and non casual touching. Knowing how women interpret your eye movements will assist you to understand what it is your saying to women with your eyes.
Your eyes reveal a lot about your mindset. Women can virtually tell what you are thinking via your eye movements. Their intuition is more finely tuned than a man’s and you need to become aware of what you are conveying to women whilst you’re interacting with them.
Women need to know that you find them attractive. To establish a physical connection with a woman using your eyes you must be able to look at her body the correct way. Ironically, if you don’t look at a woman’s body she will think that something is wrong and feel unattractive. The problem is that most men don’t know how to look at a woman’s body correctly.
When the average man looks at a woman’s body he usually finds himself looking away from the woman and avoiding eye contact with her. This subliminally conveys to the woman that he is embarrassed and ashamed of looking at her body and acting on his desires. When a man avoids eye contact after looking at a woman’s body he is saying, “…I shouldn’t have done that and I’m too embarrassed to look at you in the eyes again…sorry.” From a woman’s perspective this is very unattractive, and it’s a turn-off.
If your attracted to a women it’s natural to want to look at her body. When you feel this natural inclination simply allow your eyes to gaze over her body but limit this gaze to a period of two and a half seconds. The only simple rule that you have to follow to look at a woman’s body correctly is to ensure that you return your gaze into her eyes again after you have looked at her body.
What this signifies to a women is that in no way whatsoever are you embarrassed or ashamed and afraid of expressing or acting upon the attraction you feel towards her. It allows you to look at a woman’s body any time you desire to do so because you are doing so in a manner that allows her to feel attractive and doesn’t cause her to feel uncomfortable. She can only feel relaxed around you when you feel comfortable with yourself.
The way in which we break eye contact is also very important. Do not break eye contact by allowing your eyes to look downwards. Always break eye contact with a woman by looking slightly upwards or to the side. Looking downwards to break eye contact conveys shame at a very subliminal level. Aloding: gzip,deflate Accept-Charund the women you desire. Always be aware of these dynamics whilst with a woman in any situation.
When a woman initiates eye contact with you in a social situation it’s her way of expressing her desire for you. When this happens be sure that you’re not the one who breaks the eye contact first. To do so is to subliminally convey to the woman that you are not man enough to maintain eye contact with her because you fear what she might think of you. It tells her that she is the dominate one because you don’t have the courage to maintain eye contact with her. It signifies that you’re not capable of flirting with her in this manner because your afraid of what might happen.
Some women do this to men as a test to see if they are capable of handling them as a potential lover. Most men don’t understand this dynamic and therefore usually break eye contact with the women who desire them. When a woman does this it’s her way of saying, “…I’d love to become intimate with you if you can actually handle me and cause me to actually feel like a woman by showing me you’re man enough and creative enough to make something happen from this…”
A slow wink at around the six second mark will do wonders for you when you’re maintaining eye contact with a woman for an extended period if she has initiated it. She’s asking you to go over there and chat her up if she winks back at you.
No woman will initiate and engage in an extended period of eye contact with you if she is not interested in becoming intimate with you. “Come over here and talk to me” is what women are trying to say to you when they initiate and engage in eye contact with you. Knowing all this can make things a lot easier for you now that you know what women are trying to say to you with their eyes. You also now know what you are actually saying to women with your eyes.
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