Using NLP In Seduction
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When we communicate, we do so through the lens of a primary format. The format you communicate through is dependent on your personality type. The study of these differing formats of communication is known as NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). Understanding these formats can be beneficial whilst communicating with women and this is how NLP became associated with seduction.
Seduction is simply utilizing the most effective means to communicate our desires and intentions. The more effectively we communicate, the greater the possibility of a woman harmonizing and aligning herself with our intent.
This is the reason that seduction is enhanced by NLP. When a man can swiftly access the true meaning within a woman’s communications he becomes capable of changing the results of an interaction.
People will primarily use one of four different representational systems to communicate and the system they adopt is dependent on their personality type. The systems are known as kinesthetic, visual, audio and olfactory. If a man converses with a woman whilst utilizing her primary system he is able to establish a connection with her much faster.
If someone adopts the visual representational system as their personal hierarchy, their conversations will have words in them that are related to vision. You would hear them say such sentences as, “I see exactly what you mean. I couldn’t picture it at first, but now that I can, it has totally changed my point of view”
Using the same representational system as a woman can be quiet easy to do with a little practice. When a man becomes proficient at this practice it can seem to the woman as if he understands her and is speaking her language.
If a woman’s primary representational system was ‘audio’, you would hear her use terminology like, “It just sounded like a good idea. When I heard it I tuned in straight away. His voice had a soft tone so I had to listen carefully and I’m glad I did”
If the kinaesthetic system is her personal hierarchy you’ll hear numerous words in sentences that will be associated with feelings and touch. An example would be, “I don’t feel like I’ve touched on the subject properly with him. I wish he’d warm to the idea and talk about it because I feel it would soften his hurt somewhat”
People rarely use the olfactory system as their preferred representational system as the majority of people are visual, audio or kinaesthetic. However, an example would sound like, “The weather was cold and bitter but the smell of the rain was nice. The icing on the cake was him bringing a jumper for me. I thought that was very tastefully done”
Being aware of women’s preferred representational systems will assist you to easily determine which system to adopt when you’re conversing and flirting with them. When using her preferred system, all your conversations with her will be more effective. The example below is a very subliminal communication breakdown that occurs often.
If a woman was to say, “That place looks great to me and I can just visualise myself being there someday. It just looks so picturesque, nearly like a painting”, she would be operating from the perspective of a ‘visual’. If the man who was an ‘audio’ responded with, “That idea sounds like sweet music to me. No city noise and just peace and quiet. Just relax and tune out”, he would be missing an opportunity to connect with her at a deeper level.
This example above illustrates how it is possible for the woman to feel a low quality of connection even though the man is in total agreement with her. The man is responding through the lens of an ‘audio’ representational system rather than a ‘visual’. If he responded to the woman’s statement whilst utilizing the ‘visual’ system with a reply similar to, “That does look picturesque. I can certainly see you’re point. It looks great”, he would be able to establish greater rapport which in turn would allow her to feel more comfortable around him.
Paying attention to a woman’s preferred representational system whilst interacting and flirting with her can assist you to build a stronger connection. Women will naturally feel more relaxed around you if you take advantage of this simple dynamic within your conversations.
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