Try Dating Someone Else to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
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No doubt when you read the title of this article, suggesting that to win back your ex boyfriend you should date someone else, you thought it sounded like a crazy idea. After all, shouldnt you do the opposite? Shouldnt you let him know how much he means to you instead of doing something that makes him think you dont care? Well, read on before you decide its the wrong thing to do.
Let me explain! When you’ve been dumped by someone you’re still in love with, instinctively your first thoughts are to chase after them and to beg and plead with them to take you back. It’s pretty much a mad panic on your part to get right back into the relationship before your ex boyfriend forgets about you and or meets someone else.
First, before you do anything else, take a deep breath and tell yourself that hes not going to forget you over night. He cared about you once. Hes not likely to forget that quickly. If there is a way to win back your ex boyfriend, it is not by begging.
So you need to take a break from the relationship. Completely. Let him do whatever it is he thinks he needs to do. Do not contact your ex boyfriend and let him think about what hes done, while youre thinking about it too.
Once youve made the decision to take this time away from your ex boyfriend, itll get easier. The next step is to put on your best outfit, call up your friends and go out and have some fun. Focus on having a good time and dont fall prey to the temptation to call your ex.
If you meet someone who you feel you’d like to date, don’t let your desire to win back ex boyfriend stop you. Remember, you’re not actually in a relationship with your ex, you’ve broken up and you’re a free agent. So if you’re emotionally ready to have some fun, go ahead and have some!
You dont have to be serious about the guy. You probably want to tell him you just want to have some fun with him and that youre not ready for anything serious. Tell him you like him and just want to get to know him.
You are not doing this to make your ex boyfriend jealous. Youre doing it to take your mind off of feeling bad and feeling sorry for yourself and putting your thoughts on a positive experience. The last thing you want to do is bring baggage into your good time.
Getting to know someone new may just make you realize you dont want to get back with your ex boyfriend anyway. The new guy might not be exactly right for you but he may have something your ex boyfriend didnt have that you might really think is important in a new relationship. Taking this break and dating someone else may be just what you need to do to win back your ex boyfriend.
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