Getting Your Ex Back Within Hours
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If you want to get your ex back in hours or days instead of weeks or months, you’ll need to understand some basic emotional intelligence. And that is that feelings don’t stay the same, they change. You know this to be true. You’ve been happy and it didn’t last, did it? Angry and it went away, sometimes within minutes.
So understand that feelings will change. That is the way emotions work. Even your ex’s emotions. But strong emotions don’t change quickly. So your ex may seem stuck on negative feelings about you to this point.
The secret to getting your ex back within hours is to understand that you can help other peoples feelings to change. You can! And specifically, you can often help your ex to change their feelings towards you. There are certain things you can do to make this happen.
How do you do this? Well, it depends on why you broke up, there are several completely different immediate reconnect strategies to work with based on whether you wronged your ex or if they just aren’t that into you anymore. Lets say you cheated on your ex.
In this case, your ex is angry, or hurt, or ashamed, or feeling betrayed. These are powerful emotions. And the stronger the emotion, the longer it will stick around. The feeling of betrayal can stick around for years!
These negative emotions are filling their heart. The secret to getting your ex back fast is to help your ex to resolve their negative emotions. These must be released or they won’t take you back.
So how do you help your ex (or anyone at all, for that matter) release and resolve their negative feelings? Well, there are several steps involved, but one of the most powerful is to get them to vent. Get them to say how they feel. Let them get the feelings off their chest.
To get your ex back fast, the key is to get them to talk about their feelings. Get them to open up and vent some. Don’t try to explain or defend yourself, just make them feel heard and understood. Become a great listener.
Most people want to apologize endlessly after wronging their mate. But a more powerful thing to do is to get your ex to talk. Get them to vent. Dont argue, dont defend yourself, just make them feel heard and understood. This can get you a lot further than saying Im sorry a thousand times.
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