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Getting Your Ex Back In Minutes

When we’ve broken up with a loved one and want them back, we want it to happen fast. 15 minutes would be good, and it can happen. We don’t want it to take weeks or months as we try to let time heal their wounds.

There is no need to wait weeks pining for your ex and sitting by the phone hoping to hear from them. With the right strategy, you can get your ex back in just hours. Sometimes, you can get them back in as little as fifteen minutes. Here’s an important piece of the immediate reconnect strategy:

First, you’ve got to understand something about emotional logic. Your ex used to have positive feelings about you. That’s why you were a couple. You both felt good about being with the other person. Obvious, right? Now, things have happened and your ex has their heart full of negative feelings about you. Anger, hurt, sadness, betrayal, boredom, depending on what happened. The positive feelings have been replaced with negative emotions. Also obvious, right?

What you have to do to get your ex back fast is to help them to release and resolve their negative feelings towards you. When you can do that, you can get your ex back in hours, sometimes in minutes.

How can you do this? How can you, who have no emotional training, help your ex to release and resolve their negative feelings towards you? There are several steps, but one of the key steps to accomplish this you already know. Its called venting or getting things off their chest.

Your job is to help them to vent, to get their negative feelings about you and what you did off their chest. If you had an affair, for example, they are likely feeling betrayed and humiliated. You want them to tell you how they feel. As they do, you don’t argue or defend yourself. You just make them feel heard and understood.

As they cry or attack you or curse you, if you don’t argue or defend yourself, they will be releasing those negative feelings. If you do argue with them, then the negative feelings get reinforced. If you make them feel heard, the emotional charge will get released, making room in their heart to take you back.

Yes, there’s more to the art of helping your ex vent, and there’s some other steps involved besides this one, but venting should be a key part of your immediate reconnect strategy with your ex. To get your ex back in minutes, there are other steps involved, but this is a good start.

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