Get Your Ex Back With This Method
Your ex ended things with you. They felt ignored or betrayed or mad or sad and they hit the eject button. Happens to couples all the time.
You of course, want them back. How to get them back is going to depend on why they left you. If you cheated on them, that will require a different strategy than if they felt ignored and left you.
There is one basic emotional issue to understand to get your ex back. Your ex used to have a heart filled with loving and liking for you. But because of what you did or because of a series of things their heart started to fill with anger or sadness or loneliness or betrayal. They broke up with you because their heart is now filled with the wrong feelings for you, feelings that make them want to be away from you.
Sounds obvious, but it is key to getting your ex back. You must understand that their feelings for you have changed. To get them back, you will have to help them change these negative feelings. How do you do that? Can you do that?
Yes, you can. You don’t have to be a therapist or psychiatrist to help your ex change their feelings. You can do it simply and elegantly and on purpose.
There’s several ways to help people to resolve negative feelings. One popular method we have all used already. And that is “getting things off our chests.” We meet a friend for a drink, vent about our relationship or work, and feel better.
In most cases you can use this same strategy to get your ex back. Instead of doing all the talking, listen! Ask your ex how they feel about what happened. Then shut up and listen. Let them talk.
When they start talking, make them feel heard and understood. Do not argue or justify. Listen until they have vented the force of all those negative emotions. A few sessions of being a good listener can help your ex to release their bad feelings and consider taking you back.
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