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Catch My Cheating Spouse – What I Didn’t Even Think to Do, But Wish I Had Done

February 3, 2010 by

You know, it wasn’t long ago that I had to catch my cheating spouse. I understand where you are, I can empathize. And you know what? I’d really like to tell you exactly what I did to catch my cheating spouse, and I will. I know what it’s like to get the feeling that you’re spouse is betraying you, that you’ve put all this effort into loving them and supporting them through thick and thin, and this is how they repay you. It’s the worst thing that can happen to anyone. Which is exactly why I’m going to share with you…I want to help you catch your spouse cheating.

I know you’ve probably seen a lot of information out there, and you’ve probably thought “How could this possibly work, this is ridiculous,” and after all that you still haven’t caught your spouse cheating.

So what, exactly, are you doing that’s so wrong? What’s keeping you from catching your spouse?

Well, let me say that you haven’t done anything wrong. There’s a lot of false information out there, it’s easy to get caught up in it. But let’s go back in time for a moment. The very first thing you should have done is accept that your spouse is disloyal to you. Seriously, take a deep breath. Let it sink in. Deal with it, cope with it, and read on.

Here’s the thing: 85% of the time, if you suspect your spouse of having an affair, you’re correct. Now, that means that about 1/10 of the time, you have nothing to worry about. But let’s be frank, if you’re reading this, you’re already pretty sure you have something to be worried about. So let’s save you the heart ache, from now on assume your spouse is having an affair. This is something I did NOT do when I had to catch my cheating spouse and I really regret it, because it made things much more difficult.

Ok. That’s taken care of, now we can get to business. So, the next step is…Think Like a Spy.

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Here’s what you ought to do: Start letting those creative juices flow. You should realize that your spouse is going to be very wary of getting caught, which means they’re going to take pretty extreme measures to make sure they don’t get caught. But you…you’re smarter than that. You’re already aware of their infidelity, and what you should do is let them go on in their ignorance. The more they think you have no idea about anything, the better for you.

Why do all this? Well, it’s simple really…what you’re doing here is maintaining control of the situation. If you do this right you’ll be able to know exactly when your spouse is lying, and when they’re not.

Step 3: Look for patterns.

There’s a small amount of people who’re aware of this technique, but it works INCREDIBLY WELL! It makes it so so easy to catch your spouse; I really wish when I’d been catching my cheating spouse that I’d thought of this, but alas. The point here is that your partner is always going to have a set routine of things they do every time they’re disloyal to you. These little signs are like road lights guiding you to catching your spouse cheating.

All you have to do is take note of them. Just keep your eyes out, they’re usually very easy to spot.

Look for things like mileage on their car. Is it randomly spiking every now and then? Another thing to look for is changes in their mood. Anytime a spouse commits adultery, there will be a short term alteration in their mood, either for the better for the worse. If your spouse seems extra nice, or extra distant, or extra mean every once in a while…

That’s a pretty big signal pointing you right to your spouse’s affair!

So ok, you’ve taken note of all these routines; you can almost always tell when your spouse is cheating on you. Well, what do you do next? Once you’ve allowed yourself to admit that your spouse is disloyal to you, you’ve started to be super sneaky and creative, you’ve looked for routine patterns in their behavior…then it’s time for the final step!

Catch them! Yes, get the rock solid proof. And how do you do that?

The best thing I can recommend is to take a look here. When I had to catch my cheating spouse this is the exact same resource I used, and it worked like a charm.

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